SIMC DIARIES – CHAPTER 14 – “Life Isn’t The Same Anymore” – PART 2 – The Grand Finale
The Earlier Journey
Chapter 1 Chapter 2 Chapter 3 Chapter 4 Chapter 5 Chapter 6
Chapter 7 Chapter 8 Chapter 9 Chapter 10 Chapter 11 Chapter 12
The Finale Journey
As I said, I shall return pretty soon with more thoughts, more memories and more nostalgia. Yes “Life isn’t the same anymore.” We have to admit. We because, at this moment, at this very time, everyone who has been an integral part of the SIMC Diaries is either making a presentation somewhere, is either shooting something or stuck in the traffic cribbing about their city’s traffic woes and the week ahead. Weekend is far far away!
Recollecting the days gone by, many may feel attending the odd Sunday lectures still is a better option today than making a presentation over the weekend. Spending a Saturday night at Silver Spoon, The Hangover or just at the city, crashing to a friend’s place is anytime better than working on a supposed half-day turned into a full-day, thanks to the moron boss. While he/she is happily enjoying his weekend, our plans stand screwed. And one’s lucky to have a five-day working week- Well all one may be thinking, how come Monday-Friday seem to pass slow, while Saturday-Sunday passes like a fast Virar local. I am talking from Mumbai’s point of view. I am rest sure that the scenario of my fellow SIMC inmates spread across the world will be no different.
All I remember saying to Rahul Bharadwaj and Humanity was “Corporate Life sucks!” Luckily while I didn’t get a corporate job, the emotion is no different. It still is better though looking into my other friends and the way they are slogging, in a new city (for many) and amidst different cultures. But yes, one thing for sure, with hectic work schedules, awry timings, it’s a blessing if one manages to catch up with friends over the weekend.
It’s now been four months but I haven’t been able to catch up (as regularly) with so many of my friends. I was lucky to have a good time with Siddharth, Smith just before I got a job at Business Of Cinema (all thanks to Ankit Saxena from my junior batch, to have sent me the Facebook Page link). That was probably one of the last great encounters I remember. Oh Yes! Sohom had dropped by home and it was again a great Sunday spent discussing “woes, wow’s and wtf’s!” of SIMC. Felt inspired.
Many will agree on the fact that, we all made promises to stay in touch. Meet over weekends and do something ‘special’. But to be really honest, we haven’t got the time. Few have been really lucky. I also must admit that I had these moments too, but there’s always that life’s one excuse – I am tied up with things, I am busy! While many times, I genuinely had work and I couldn’t make it but there were occasions when certain pressures of your job, career, personal, love-hate, will just keep you away from a social life. I managed to have phone conversations with Ninjaa (Niranjana) and made plans of meeting on a Saturday evening in town with a few friends, but it never happened. I hope it happens this week. I believe that the reason is simple. Many travel by train (again talking from the Mumbai’s point of view) on multiple routes daily. Some from Andheri-Bandra, some from Panvel-CST, some Virar-Churchgate and so on. May be it just gets so monotonous week over week, months after months that we begin to truly miss being at home over weekends, just because we can avoid the train crowds, just for a day! That’s how life has changed! Yes. “Life certainly isn’t the same anymore!”
For many priorities have changed, for many the perceptions about life. In each one of us (including me), I bet something or the other has changed. May be we have grown in the four months after college. Or may-be we have just learnt what taking up bigger responsibilities is all about! But we all have grown up pretty fast. I just realise that the four months, that brought us back from the luxuries of the hills at Lavale to the harsh realities of our respective ‘corporate’, ‘journalistic’, ‘media-planning’, ‘advertising’, ‘directorial’, ‘editorial’, ‘reporting’ and any other LIFE, has passed so quickly, even faster than those Sunday lectures, which we miss. At least then, we still had the company of friends in the class. Now we have our pillow (literally or otherwise) as our companion for LIFE!
The long Saturday night conversations at the hostels have been replaced with the number of mails in our inboxes from bosses and clients. The mixture of breakfast from bad-good-worse have been replaced to appraisals at work, the walk to the academic block has been substituted to tiring journeys of the locals, the boring classes (which now we miss) seem a mere reflection of last-minute presentation meetings, editorial meets or otherwise. We don’t realise when it’s 5:00 PM now, but we had a reason then. We don’t know when it’s lunch time now, when we had a reason then too. Numerous trips to the city have just been replaced by calls tom our bosses. Assignment deadlines have been replaced with client deadlines, and sadly there is no extension here!!!
Forget catching the 9:00 PM bus, now all we wait is when our boss leaves office after those 10-12 hours and sometimes pray that our specific train isn’t late or maybe we just get a sit by the window. Only because that’s the time you have to yourself, your memories and your wonderful moments.
I recollect the best times, the odd laughter, the leg-pulling and maybe just close my eyes into a plethora of memories of college life, only to be woken up by the rush at Kurla station and the constant chattering of people. As I see the odd fifty people barge into the tiny compartment, I realise probably life must have been similar for them some years back, from college to corporate, but they have moved on. Maybe our time has arrived.
There isn’t always a reason to say goodbye.
It’s probably an assurance that we shall meet again.
– Rahul Iyer –